Phrase

What is the story of the phrase “women first”?This famous phrase (women first) is always repeated on the lips of men when they offer women to enter any place or do anything else, which brings joy to the heart of the woman or girl because the other party showed her a kind of respect and appreciation, but behind this phrase The famous strange story, and here are its events:This story happened in Italy in the eighteenth century AD, and it says: A young man from a rich family in one of the Italian provinces fell in love with a girl from a poor family who was not of his class. The two agreed to marry, but the young man met with strong opposition from his family, which was forced to threaten him not to marry. Blessings on this marriage, and the pressures grew on the young man and the girl, so they decided that nothing would separate them except pain and death... and for fear of being separated, they decided to commit suicide

هل يُجدي نَفعًا أن تَقول لغريق تَغمُره المياه: تَنَفَّس، أنت أقوى مِن الماء، دون أنْ تَمد يديك إليه تُنقِذه؟ كذلك هو الأمر حين يَكون أحدهم في عُمق مُعاناته بينما أنت تُغدق عَليه عبارات التَحفيز الَّتي تَستفز ألمه. إنَّ حاجته للإنصات والتَفَهُّم بصَمت حينها كحاجه الغَريق لليد. ا/فارس المنصوبIs it useful to say to a drowning person who is submerged in water: Breathe, you are stronger than water, without extending your hands to him to save him? This is also the case when someone is in the depths of his suffering while you shower him with motivational phrases that provoke his pain. His need to listen and understand silently at that time is like a drowning person's need for a hand. T/Faris Al-Mansswb